Intimacy is an important element of the quality of life for both partners, and sometimes women do not enjoy sex, so they have to imitate their pleasure. According to many studies, in a long-term relationship, there may be a problem of decreased libido, and orgasm simulation is a great way to prevent misunderstandings between partners and avoid disappointment. In this article, we’ll take a deeper look at why women fake orgasms and what consequences it has, how sex toys can enhance the peak of pleasure and its quality, and sexual intercourse in general.
Reasons why women fake orgasms
Imitation of pleasure can be caused by various factors, including:
- Expectations of men – very often, the idea of intimacy among the stronger sex of humanity is formed under the influence of watching erotic movies, magazines, etc. Women’s orgasms depend on many physical and psychological factors, they need more attention and time to relax, and their partners do not always look as perfect as porn models, so they do not behave in a relaxed and confident manner.
- Fear of losing – a partner, divorce, infidelity.
- Women are afraid that if men find out the truth, they will end the relationship.
- Fear of expressing their sexual desires.
- Quick completion of unpleasant sex.
- Fatigue, emotional stress.
- Uncomfortable feelings during intimacy.
Signs of imitation of orgasm
There are several signs that can be used to understand that pleasure is being simulated:
- Eye contact (at the peak of pleasure, a woman does not close her eyes, but when she really gets incredibly pleasant sensations, a person does not control her emotions and is completely immersed in her state.
- Excessive physical activity (after sex, a woman wants to rest and regain her strength, if her partner imitates pleasure, she will want to continue sexual intercourse, hug, talk).
- Muscle contraction (real pleasant sensations are accompanied by contraction of the pelvic floor muscles without the woman’s control, during orgasm due to muscle contraction, the vagina can narrow, which gives pleasure to both women and men).
- Lack of emotions (when a woman has an orgasm, she shows different emotions: laughter, tears, joy and satisfaction).
- Rapid speech (after the intimate process is completed, women experience shortness of breath, disorientation in space due to maximum relaxation, peak pleasure and emotions. If your partner is very talkative, it was probably an imitation of orgasm).
Rules of behavior if a woman imitates orgasm
Many men are upset and have negative emotions when their partners do this, they take it personally, think they are not trying hard enough, there is another partner, etc. However, you shouldn’t jump to conclusions and quarrel with your partner. Instead, try to talk openly about your desires, feelings, explore each other’s bodies, erogenous zones, and pay attention to foreplay, as women need more attention to relax and enjoy themselves. Try to create a cozy and comfortable atmosphere: relaxing music, dim lights, aromatic oils, use sex toys, discuss all actions and ideas with your partner beforehand, try different lubricants, gels, experiment with different tastes and effects. Flirting, courtship, caressing words and phrases help to relax better, relieve nervous tension, which in turn enhances orgasm and makes intimate life more enjoyable.
Consequences of orgasm simulation
This behavior can cause partners to:
- misunderstanding in the relationship
- disrespect for oneself, lowered self-esteem
- decreased libido
- psychological disorders.
Interesting facts about orgasm
- women need more time than men to reach the peak of pleasure in the intimate process
- orgasm is good for health (studies show that people who get pleasure live longer)
- orgasm improves sleep, reduces the risk of cardiovascular disease
- 70% of female orgasms occur when the clitoris is stimulated
- there are women who are not able to experience orgasm.
Understanding the reasons for simulating an orgasm, caring for each other, and communicating between partners helps to reduce discomfort, eliminate the causes of simulation, and allow you to get closer to your partner and experience incredible sensations and pleasure from intimacy.
